Have you gained any weight lately? How does it make you feel about yourself in terms of your overall self-esteem and sexuality? One of my girlfriends refers to this recently
acquired weight on her back as ‘fack’ or back fat! If you’re involved with someone, does your partner support you and help you work to reach your desired weight and health goals?
Did you hear about the survey recently discussed on the Today show by psychotherapist and Today show contributor Dr. Robi Ludwig? The poll was a joint collaboration between Cosmopolitan magazine and AskMen.com and asked all types of relationship questions.
Of course the one I want to focus in on has to do with weight gain. Don’t miss this… according to this poll of 70,000 people, nearly 50% of the men said they would dump a partner who gained weight. This is in comparison to only 20% of the women who responded the same.
According to Dr. Ludwig, she has not found this response to be typical in her private practice. She says that women are much harder on themselves and their looks and weight than their partners. Do you agree?
Do you think this survey response has to do with women being more objectified than men where their bodies are constantly evaluated and sexualized…and at younger and younger ages? Think about celebrities. Gain weight and your tabloid fodder. By the way, seems to me, this is true more for women but not so much for men. Hmmm
According to the Journal of Obesity, weight discrimination is an issue for woman.
Why do you think weight gain in women is such an issue for men? Going back to the Today show segment, is it because a man’s partner is seen as an extension of him and reflects how he wants to be viewed by the world? Do you think an overweight partner sends the message that the guy is not successful or has poor self-esteem?
Ladies, when you gain weight, is your self-esteem or sexy feeling diminished? Do men pick up on this? I’m not sure there’s one answer but rather a tightly interwoven net of thoughts and feelings. Whatever happened to mutual support, understanding and working together?
I want to know what you think so post your comment on my blog at susanmitchell.org or Facebook page…both which you will find at susanmitchell.org
On a completely separate note, if you plan to grill out this weekend, try these grilling recipes from I Can’t Believe It’s Not Butter!
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SHRIMP SCAMPI SKEWERS
4 servings Prep Time: 10 minutes Marinate Time: 10 minutes Cook Time: 5 minutes
1 lb. uncooked large shrimp, peeled and deveined with tails on
4 green onions, cut into 1-1/2-inch pieces
2 Tbsp. lemon juice
1 clove garlic, finely chopped
1 lemon, halved and sliced
20 sprays I Can’t Believe It’s Not Butter!® Spray Original
Combine shrimp, onions, lemon juice and garlic in medium bowl. Cover and marinate 10 minutes.
Alternately thread shrimp, onions and lemon slices on skewers*. Grill or broil, turning once and spraying with 10 sprays I Can’t Believe It’s Not Butter!® Spray Original, 4 minutes or until shrimp turn pink.
Just before serving, spray with remaining 10 Sprays.
*If using wooden skewers, soak in water at least 30 minutes prior to use.
Nutrition Information per serving:
Calories 130, Calories From Fat 20, Saturated Fat 0g, Trans Fat 0g, Total Fat 2g, Cholesterol 170mg, Sodium 190mg, Total Carbohydrate 6g, Sugars 1g, Dietary Fiber 2g, Protein 24g, Vitamin A 8%, Vitamin C 50%, Calcium 8%, Iron 20%
Recipe Courtesy of Unilever Kitchens
SUMMERTIME GRILLED VEGETABLES
4 servings Prep Time: 5 minutes Cook Time: 10 minutes
3 lbs. your favorite vegetables (red onions, zucchini, asparagus, bell peppers), sliced or cut into chunks
30 sprays I Can’t Believe It’s Not Butter!® Spray Original
Alternately thread vegetables on skewers*. Grill or broil vegetables until tender. Arrange vegetables on serving platter. Spray with I Can’t Believe It’s Not Butter!® Spray Original.
*If using wooden skewers soak at least 30 minutes prior to use.
Cost per recipe**: $4.92
Cost per serving**: $1.23
**Based on average retail prices at national supermarkets.
Nutrition Information per serving:
Calories 90, Calories From Fat 10, Saturated Fat 0g, Trans Fat 0g, Total Fat 1g, Cholesterol 0mg, Sodium 40mg, Total Carbohydrate 17g, Sugars 9g, Dietary Fiber 6g, Protein 5g, Vitamin A 60%, Vitamin C 170%, Calcium 6%, Iron 20%
Recipe Courtesy of Unilever Kitchens
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